Before You Marry

Looking for a mate? Engaged? Learn how to find a partner you can spend the rest of your life with and how to get your marriage off to a great start.

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The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate PDF Print E-mail

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By Gary Chapman
Paperback - June 1995
Northfield Publishing
203 Pages

Learn to recognize your partner's love language, and you'll be more likely to be able to tell how much you are loved. Learn to use your partner's love language to rev up your marriage.

This book is highly recommended. Makes a great wedding or anniversary gift. Free study guide available.

Target audiences:
engaged, married, life partners, unmarried, traditional, same-sex, happy, troubled, abusive, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Catholic, childless, parents, empty nesters

Includes a few Christian references. Author is a Christian marriage counselor. 

Other Editions:
Hardcover - June 1996
Large Print Paperback - August 2005
Men's Edition Paperback - May 2004
Audio CD - December 2005
Abridged Audio CD - May 2002
Audio Cassette - January 1996
MP3 CD - June 2005
Audio Download
Kindle Book

 
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work PDF Print E-mail

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By John M. Gottman, Ph.D., and Nan Silver
Paperback - November 2004
Orion
288 Pages

Learn to recognize and prevent the signs that predict divorce: a harsh startup when discussing a problem, the Four Horsemen (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling), negativity so overwhelming that one partner experiences emotional flooding, and physical reactions (fast heartbeat, sweating, high blood pressure). Gottman is a leading marriage researcher, and this is his most popular book.

This book is highly recommended.

Target audiences:
engaged, married, life partners, traditional, same-sex, happy, troubled, abusive, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Catholic, childless, parents, empty nesters

No religious content. Author is a psychologist and marriage researcher. 

Other Editions:
Hardcover - March 1999
Three Rivers Press Paperback - May 2000
Kindle Book

 
Take Back Your Wedding: Managing the People Stress of Wedding Planning PDF Print E-mail
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By William J. Doherty, Ph.D. and Elizabeth Doherty Thomas
Paperback - May 2007
The Guilford Press
148 Pages

Find guidance for creating a strong extended family while dealing with all the emotional issues of wedding planning. Learn how to handle the variety of conflicting expectations between bride and groom and among both sets of parents and any stepparents, your friends and colleagues, and your religious traditions. Identify and plan for common wedding pitfalls. And prepare yourself to deal with problem family members gracefully.

Makes a great engagement gift. Sample chapters, discussion board online.

Target audiences:
engaged, traditional, happy, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Catholic, childless, parents, empty nesters

No religious content. Authors are a marriage and family therapy professor and his married daughter. 

Other Editions:
None

 
Smart Marriage: Using Your (Business) Head as Well as Your Heart to Find Wedded Bliss PDF Print E-mail
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By Allen M. Parkman
Hardcover - September 2007
Praeger
200 Pages

In an unusual take on choosing your spouse and managing your marriage, Dr. Parkman looks at marriage from the practical side. Because no-fault divorce means your spouse can end the marriage at any time, he advises viewing your relationship much as you would view a business venture with a partner. Attraction and love are not enough to insure success.

If you follow his excellent suggestions for sizing up a prospective mate, you should find his advice about managing the shared work of marriage, making career decisions, and raising children very helpful.

Target audiences:
engaged, married, life partners, traditional, same-sex, happy, troubled, abusive, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Catholic, childless, parents, empty nesters

No religious content. Author is an economist, lawyer, professor emeritus, and father, married for 30 years.

Other Editions:
None

 
Making Marriage Work (DVD) PDF Print E-mail

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By John M. Gottman, Ph.D.
DVD - November 2004
Better Life Media
48 Minutes

Learn the Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Gottman is a leading marriage researcher, and this video illustrates the seven principles in his most popular book.

Target audiences:
engaged, married, life partners, traditional, same-sex, happy, troubled, abusive, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Catholic, childless, parents, empty nesters

No religious content. Author is a psychologist and marriage researcher. 

Related Book:
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

 
How to Ruin Your Love Life PDF Print E-mail

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By Ben Stein
Hardcover - August 2003
Hay House, Inc.
119 Pages

44 laugh-out-loud ways to ruin your love life, whether married or dating. Everything not to do and why. Examples: Overdramatize Everything, Pretend to Be Someone You're Not, When Things Are Going Really Well, Start a Fight. A quick read.

Makes a great gift for a dating friend or sibling.

Target audiences:
engaged, married, life partners, unmarried, traditional, same-sex, happy, troubled, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Catholic, childless, parents, empty nesters

Author is a financial advisor, former White House speech writer, law school professor, novelist, television producer, and game show host.

 
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